MYSTERY OF MISSING YORKSHIRE
MUM  | | MISSING | Dutch police have found no trace of Wendy
Whitehead |
Has a Yorkshire mother of three been murdered
on the Continent?
Wendy Whitehead disappeared 14 months ago. It’s
almost as if she’s vanished off the face of the earth. In a story straight out of the pages of a mystery novel,
Wendy Whitehead surprisingly left everything behind for a new life in
Holland. This included her father, three grown-up children and grandchildren.
Forty-six year old Wendy, left for Hilversum near Amsterdam,
with her boyfriend Steve Oldman. Wendy, who was born in Hull, but lived in Leeds went
missing on Boxing Day 2001. It was after a row with her boyfriend. But Steve didn’t raise the alarm and police were only
alerted some four months later. Volatile | | Steve never
expected Wendy to be away for so long |
Wendy and Steve had a volatile relationship. Police were
called several times to a flat they lived in. On one occasion Wendy actually
stabbed Steve. To some who lived nearby, they were the neighbours from
hell. Steve denies having anything to do with Wendy’s disappearance. He recognises that in hindsight, he should have reported
her absence to the police. He says, "I wasn’t expecting Wendy not to be
around for this length of time." "I left it and one day went into another and it never
got done." Raising the alarmWendy’s father, John Allison, raised the alarm when he
didn’t get a fathers day card. As a result, an international police search is underway
with investigations being carried out in both the UK and Holland. So far
all inquiries have drawn a blank. With no confirmed sighting and no body having being found,
Wendy’s disappearance is still being treated as just a missing persons
inquiry. Police Inquiry | | Wendy's dad John
lives in hope of her safe return |
Detective Inspector Steve Robinson says, "At the back
of your mind you’ve got to consider the worst, considering the amount
of devotion she had to her family." There is also little doubt that the time delay in reporting
Wendy missing has hampered the police investigation. Mr Robinson says, "It’s certainly more difficult for
us to backtrack over four months because a great deal can happen in an
investigation in that time." "No doubt some aspects of the investigation have been
lost as a result of the time delay." Hope| Why People go missing | - Family conflict
- Debt
- Illness or accident
- Abuse
- General anxiety
- Stress
- Depression or other mental illness
- Amnesia, senile dementia or Alzheimer's disease
- Alcohol, drug or solvent misuse
- Abduction (most feared but least likely)
- Just because they feel like it
Source:National Missing Persons Helpline |
Wendy never settled in Holland. She struggled with the
language and eventually landed a job that she didn’t like. In her last contact with her family, she was frightened
and unhappy. She disappeared leaving most of her possessions behind.
Her passport had gone, but her bank accounts remain untouched. Back home in Hull, Wendy’s father John Allison is clinging
to hope but is fearing the worst. John says; "I just seem to think she’s been abducted
because she hasn’t been in touch." "I wonder whether she’s got into a relationship with
somebody who’s a bit of a control freak and won’t let her get in touch.
That’s all I can think of because she would have
got in touch, I know she would."
But until any more information is uncovered, Wendy has
become another sad missing person statistic. |