By Penn Smith
Last updated 2011-02-17

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I think my family are actually surprisingly open and I think that they're all interested in ... in the past.
Maybe with the Indian part of the family perhaps that's slightly less open, in the sense that it would perhaps upset my step-grandfather to talk about her ex.
That kind of thing, you know ... where there's been a divorce, I think that perhaps people are more sensitive. Especially in those days because she had to pretend that she committed adultery to get that divorce.
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